How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 09:17
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What melts your heart every time without fail?
Does not procrastinate.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What can I do to deal with disrespectful children?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Do not set goals—set systems.
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Losing 20kg is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Is it true that in 2028 there will be a new AIDS variant that will wipe out all the LBGTQ+ people?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What is the definite integral of x^x from 0 to 2?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
That's it for today.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why do a bra and panties have to match?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How does it feel to be in a marriage without any love?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
How does a 45-year-old man get a girlfriend?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Ask yourself: